Catching up

I've got a lot of blogging to do so let's start:

The funeral was very nice, all the people that used to work with my aunt was there, and i got to see most of my family members that i haven't seen in a while. The words that her daughter spoke were so true, she said that we should tell the people who we love, that you care about them and love them everyday, cause tomorrow might be to late. She is taking the death of her mother very well, she's got a lot of people that care for her, and i told her that she can call me any time of day if she's feeling lonely or just needs to talk.

I also found out that one of my cousins, (that's the same age as me) is pregnant with her third child!!!! She can hardly look after the two that she already has..... Don't get me wrong, i'am happy for her, but she still lives with her mom, has never worked a day in her life and the father of her childredn is a drunk. She is due on the 7th of May. Why does she get to have a baby and i don't??????????I'am not going to get upset about that again, my time will come. (Hopefully very soon)

We had a party on saturday, that turned out great, i'll post pictures later on. I probably have to get back to work, not that i feel like it. We only have a two day work this week, on Monday we had a public holiday, on Tuesday and Wednesday we have to work and on Thursday and Friday we again have a Public Holiday. My Boss told the Managing Director that he should give us these two days off, but he said no, "we can lose client's like that". Most of the company's are closed in any case, so i don't know why he thinks we can lose customers, he probably just doesn't want to stay at home with his wife, they have been having problems. We usually get along good the MD and I, but there is nothing going on at work, i don't see why i have to be here if the telephone is not even ringing, all i'am doing is blogging and playing games the whole day, I think tomorrow is going to be even more boring.

Funeral

Today is my Aunt's funeral, it's going to be weird to know that i will never see her again, She was the kindest person that i know. So today we say goodbye to her, the whole family is going to be there, the only time that my father's side of the family comes together is when someone dies. We kind of lost touch over the years, only for the occasional telephone call, we don't see much of each other. So i'll let you know what happens there.

B-Day

Happy Birthday To Me

My Old Friend

Guess who decided to make an appearance today?
Yip AF arrived this morning, i was kind of hoping that it will come only after my birthday, but since it is here now i can, (as soon as possible) start TTC conceive again.

Mother (Witch) in Law

I am so mad at my future "Mother in Law", she came to our house to pick up C for the weekend, but she only stood in the driveway waiting for him to come out, She didn't even bother to come in, and when she dropped him off on Sunday the same thing. The only time that she has ever phoned "M" is when she needs money or help, she won't even phone him just to say hello. "M" is the oldest of four children, She had "M' when she was very young, he doesn't even know his biological dad, and then she met her current husband and had three more children. She will do anything for the other three but for her oldest son she won't do anything. At the age of eighteen she thew him out of the house. "M's stepdad took care of him from a very young age and M considers him his Dad, he has always been there for him. They get along very well. I don't get it, why can some people who don't deserve kids just "pop" them out, and those couples who do deserve them have trouble getting pregnant.

Anyways it's been almost a month since my miscarriage and AF is yet to make her arrival. I just hope she comes soon so that i can start TTC again

Why?

My aunt died on Saterday Morning, and my cousin is in ICU. They were driving home when a security van didn't stop at the red robot, he hit them om the right side and they overturned. The driver of the van also died and his passenger is in a critical condition. There were four people in the car with my aunt, thankfully her daughter, my other cousin L and her boyfriend didn't get hurt. My Cousin is going into surgery today, we will have to wait and see what happens, he broke both of his arms and legs and has internal bleeding. I just hope he pulls through!!!

Loadshedding

Last night we were without power for three and a half hours, I live in South Africa and at the moment we are having a power crisis, there is not enough electricity so we have scheduled loadeshedding, to decrease the electricity demand, Eskom says it will go on like this till late June this year. So instead of sitting at home in the dark with nothing to do. We went to watch a show called "Trans Travel", about a hypnotist asking people out of the audience to come up stage and be hypnotised, then she lets them do funny stuff, without them knowing what they did. We had a few good laugh's.

M's brother's girlfriend "A" is in hospital for Psychiatric evaluation. "C" said she almost had a nervous breakdown on Sunday and her Psychologist told her to come in, to come and see her.
We don't know how long she will be there for. He said that she started going to a psychiatrist about two years ago, when her grandmother died and her grandfather had to take care of her alone, because her parents just abandoned her when she was 3, and her grandmother was like a mother to her, and after her death she just wanted to commit suicide. I feel sorry for the poor girl to be at such a young age and to have gone through such an ordeal.

Anyways my dad got back yesterday from botswana, he went to look at the new house they are moving into, but he has to leave again tomorrow on another business trip, and he will only be back next week. I don't know if i could be that long without M, and only to see him for a day before he has to leave again.

Planning

Last night while lying in bed M asked me if we are going to have a birthday party next weekend for both of us. I almost forgot that its our birthdays next week (been so busy) his birthday is on the 23 and mine on the 24 of April. How's that for a match!!!!!!!!!! I'll probably organise a party for some friends and family, nothing to big

Busy Weekend

It's been a while since i posted something but i've been so busy. My mom is moving into the same neighbour as me, in fact in the same street, just two houses from where i stay.

We were so busy this weekend, helping her to paint the house, and to put new tiles in. My dad is away on business at the moment so she needs all the help she can get. As soon as my dad is back, She want's to move in, that would be next weekend!!!! so we need to get all the thing done before then. "M" played handy man, which he enjoyed, i never knew that man could do tiling! I should twist his arm to re-do the bathroom for us.

Like usual M's brother did nothing to help, he was to scared to come out of the cottage, to scared that we would ask him anything. When we got home on Sunday, he was lying on the couch, he did absolutely nothing the whole day, and then he has the nerve to say that he is soooo tired, and don't even get me started on his girlfriend A. I know i am probably just irritated from lack of sleep and i will feel better if i have a good night's rest.

Anyways, I'am still waiting for my AF to arrive after the miscarriage, but no sign of her yet.